Grandpa, with age comes wisdom (usually) , patience (often) and more spare time (this Forum proves that). So stick at it
I would have a look at some of the sample programmes supplied with the PE (Program Editor) and get a feel of the way the programme (= program code) works and flows.
By studying them and the manuals you'll get used to commands and jargon ("straw hat" LEDs is new to me
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In addition to the aforementioned soldering iron (with stand and sponge) think about getting some of those short test-leads with croc clips at each end.
And some plug-in breadboard which is SO handy for experimenting.
I completely go along with JimPerry regarding avoiding cheap junk .
I'll try and avoid spending your money but a collection of commonly used capacitors and resistors would save money/time in the long run.
Get an A4 notebook/logbook to draw your circuits and notes. Keep it for records/reference. It WILL prove handy; trust me.
Have a look for on-line tutorials on basic electronics and bookmark them. There are many. Don't rush.
Start simple and slowly build up - we all had to do that. Good luck .
You'll have made a Grandparry Pi before you know it!
Additional: I haven't been to Maplins for many years. I'm lucky insofar as having no carriage charges from places like Farnell and RS. Not the cheapest but I'm happy to pay an extra penny for a resistor that I know will be substituted next-day fuss-free if duff. And places like them are a bit more fussy about quality.